i have a 31 year old boyfriend He is a “Hustler”. I am 18. We have been together for 1 year and four months. I have never been in trouble until we got together. I have been arrested 5 times for possession of xanax since i have been with him. Everybody seems to think its his fault. Buy i dont see how when im the one who is taking the drugs and tend to carry them on me like a dumb ***. We have been living from hotel to hotel bc he can not get a apartment or anything bc he is a 5 time felon and i have no job. He does not want me to work bc he is super jealous. He doesnt like me speaking or talking to anyone but him. And if he sees me associating with a dude. He gets really angry and agressive. People dont understand why i stay with him. Especially bc he is now in jail until april..they think that i should leave him. He is a thug or a gangster w/e you wanna call him and is a very very well known hustler where we are from. So we are constantly harrased by the laws. I am now on probation for two years..I am ver very much in love with him. We have been through s hit load.What do you guys think? Just wanna know some opinions
I got hold of some xanax recently (actual ones, NOT bought from the street), around 80 0.5mg pills, but I have no prescription for them obviously. I heard that possessing benzos like this counts as Class C in the UK. I would have them for personal use and by no means I would sell them. The question is, would this be illegal, and count as smuggling? Would they even notice if I had the pills in my suitcase?
December 27th, 2009
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I’ve tried and tried to work things out but he just goes back to his old habits every time?
We’ve been married for almost 8 years now, we have two grade school children and I’m so unhappy! I do love him but I hate his unwillingness to help around the house at all. That’s not the bad part…
He has a pill problem… (Xanax, vicodin) he doesn’t buy them illegally because they are prescribed to him but he takes too many of them when he gets them and gets a buzz from it.
I take a different nerve pills myself and I’ve had to hide them from him because he kept taking them. I one day found him in my purse getting them!!! I’ve told him over and over it’s a major problem. His best friend I (that used to have the same problem) has even tried talking to him and he doesn’t think it’s a big deal!!!
Would you leave??
We hardly ever have any affection towards each other but I know we do love each other. I just can’t take it though. I don’t want my kids to see him like that either.
December 13th, 2009
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One of my ex boyfriends started saying some mean things to both my current boyfriend and me that were pretty harsh so I cut him off as a friend. My best friend hung out with him shortly after he and I stopped being friends. I asked her if she would please respect me and not do that do that since he was cruel to me and my boyfriend and she agreed and said of course she would take my side. She was never friends with him to begin with.
Well to make a long story short, I found out that she continued hanging out with him behind my back and lied to my face about it. She constantly talked crap about him to me and said that I was her best friend and he was a horrible person. Well he ended up coming to me and showing me all these text messages from her where she invited him over and told him not to tell me and was hitting on him and talking crap about my current relationship. He has a drug problem and she never did drugs but decided to buy ecstasy and xanax from him.
Now when I confronted her about it and told her about all the evidence I had and how hurt I was, she got so upset tried to deny everything and wanted to keep being my friend. No matter what evidence I have, no matter how much she lied to me, she will not admit it. I enjoy hanging out with her so much and am going to miss being her friend, but how can I?
Sorry to be so long, I just wanted to know what other people would do if there best friend lied to them and would not tell the truth. Would you try and work things out or not?
Thank you!
My friend (20) and me (38) co signed on 2 loans and I cannot get him to pay anything. In Oct 07 I cosigned for a Jeep (I’m Primary) payment is 340/month and insurance is 280/month. In Jun 08, I cosigned (I’m primary) for a personal loan for his scooter, payment is 120/month. I lost my job and he has been working for 2 months at 10/hr, 40 hrs a week. His girlfriend lives with him and she makes 8.00/hr, 30 hrs a week. They have no other bills and moved out from my house in Sept 08 and live next door at step dads house.
He never had to pay insurance, I will pay to help him, but now he has not made any payments on the scooter (3 months worth) and has missed 5 Jeep payments in a row. Minimum I am out is 3460 for all.
Tried to take Jeep back in Sept and step dad said to me ‘your not taking my Jeep’ His step dad uses this Jeep as his personal car. I he does have a beer when he drives. He goes to buy xanax, Lowertabs, and etc. His house is in preforeclosure, elec is turned off, water is bypassed by the meter, and the step dad had a key to my house - he stole my food! His brother and everyone else uses the scooter and now the brother is telling me I cant use it - I make all the payments!!
I spoke to car loan and sheriffs office. I was told I have a serious law suit. Jeep is titled in both name but has an OR not an AND. I can take Jeep b/c I have 50% right to it. I have the title to the scooter. Friends license is suspended for a non paid ticket. Step dad said he will continue to drive even with expired tags (09/08) and doesnt care if a I take insurance off.
I have a storage shed reserved for next week. I am planning to take Jeep at their employers and put in shed. Then I will come home and get scooter. Sheriff said I could call them out, they seen all the paperwork and I can legally do this.
Brother threated my life 2 weeks ago when cable company caught them stealing my cable from my cable box - he cut thier cord. He has hit me in the past and has stolen and broken many things (a/c unit, new phones, food, tools, etc)
I feel used!! I have new alarm installed. Friend was a good friend but he hasnt talked to me much since he moved out. Am I doing the right thing? What would you do?
September 18th, 2009
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One of my ex boyfriends started saying some mean things to both my current boyfriend and me that were pretty harsh so I cut him off as a friend. My best friend hung out with him shortly after he and I stopped being friends. I asked her if she would please respect me and not do that do that since he was cruel to me and my boyfriend and she agreed and said of course she would take my side. She was never friends with him to begin with.
Well to make a long story short, I found out that she continued hanging out with him behind my back and lied to my face about it. She constantly talked crap about him to me and said that I was her best friend and he was a horrible person. Well he ended up coming to me and showing me all these text messages from her where she invited him over and told him not to tell me and was hitting on him and talking crap about my current relationship. He has a drug problem and she never did drugs but decided to buy ecstasy and xanax from him.
Now when I confronted her about it and told her about all the evidence I had and how hurt I was, she got so upset tried to deny everything and wanted to keep being my friend. No matter what evidence I have, no matter how much she lied to me, she will not admit it. I enjoy hanging out with her so much and am going to miss being her friend, but how can I?
Sorry to be so long, I just wanted to know what other people would do if there best friend lied to them and would not tell the truth. Would you try and work things out or not?
Thank you!